She said,"how much of homework have u done before you are really commit with someone that you think you love them and wants to settle down with that man?
And she said,"don't because you love that man,u go n have sex with them.they so called 'bribed' you by saying,if u love me,u must sleep with me.and you also so stupid lah,u sleep with him.ya lah,too handsome right,cannot afford to lose him.even so you will marry that man,your marriage wont last long.of course lah,before marriage u only know how to sleep with him.you dont even really know him well.NO WONDER LAH DIVORCE RATE SO HIGH NOW!" hahahs
True enough what she said,i mean..if you really love someone,you wont take advantage of the person right?Its no longer a flabbergasted issue nowadays.I sometimes wonder,do they really know the true meaning of love??what do they understand by going around sleeping with their partner which to them it is a signed of love.Or perhaps,by doing this they trying to prove their partner their fidelity.CRAP!
Oh Allah, please forgive all my sins throughout my life.And also to all my muslim friends who have commited sins in their life.. AMIN!
As for me,i would like to find someone who have this criteria:-
1)creating a solid,sincere & understanding muslim family. Reigned respect,love,commitment,mental tranquillity & happiness
2)whose slogan is:religion is sincerity
3)whose goal is:a right education for my 'children'
4)whose reference is:the Qur'an ,the sunnah of the sayings of the worthy ancestors
5)whose aspiration is:that they will be called on the Day Of Judgement to:
enter paradise,you and your wive in happiness. trays of gold & cups will
be passed round them(there will be) therein all that the one's inner-selves
could desire,all that the eyes could delight in,and you'll abide therein forever
(Az-Zukhrul:70-71)
6)whose model is:the prophet(s.a.w),his companions,the followers & those who follow
his footsteps with sincerity till the Day Of Judgement.
Its not easy to find someone special with this criteria.Even if there is,will he able to accept who i am?